Practice with the Bourgeois Problems…

The other evening as my husband talked, a resentment rose up in me for his way of coping with a potentially stressful situation. In my eyes, his coping formula sometimes equals the ‘duck and dive’ method and I had some serious judgement about his avoidance. Inside my...

Wow! vs. Oww

In our deepest relationships, there comes a time when when our partners push us into places of profound discomfort. If we’re lucky, our first response to this challenge might be “Wow, this is work!,” but for so many of us, the complaint is a loud   “our relationship...